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Free activities, conversation starters, and creative challenges for adults mentoring children and teens. Find something for the student in front of you, and the time you actually have.
Choose who you are meeting with, then what would fit today. You do not need to label a student's mood to use this.
Start with the person in front of you. Grade bands are starting points. Follow the student's interests, communication preferences, and comfort level. Invite them to choose, adapt, or pass, and leave room for the meeting to take a different direction.
Showing 56 of 56 activities for Grades 6 to 8
Students can pass or use a fictional example for personal answers. Join in alongside them when meeting one-on-one.
Share what helps you participate, in the style of a ridiculous product manual.
The student teaches you something they know while you play the curious learner.
Quick either-or choices where students can argue for a third option.
Take turns defending harmless claims with mock-serious arguments.
Transform each other's abstract shapes into something. Talk happens on the side.
Talk entirely on paper with words, symbols, arrows, or sketches.
Draw a map of an ideal hangout or imaginary town and tell its story.
Title the week like an album and list the track names.
Design a custom shoe that says something about who you are.
Pick five ordinary objects for an imaginary mission and handle a surprise.
Build a paper structure, then try again with a new constraint. No winner needed.
One person describes a drawing; the other recreates it without seeing it.
Pitch an inconvenient product, then redesign one feature to make it useful.
Change one rule of a familiar game and see what happens.
Walk side by side. Movement and no eye contact make talking easier.
Walk to a spot that matches your opinion and explain it if you want.
One person leads slow movements while the other mirrors, with imaginary music genres.
Control the movement with four commands and invent a fifth.
Toss a soft ball; the catcher chooses between two prompts.
Draw three batteries and fill each to its current level.
Sort stressors into what you can influence and what you cannot.
Borrow the language of game updates for a weekly check-in.
Name two things you did, however ordinary, and one adjustment that helped.
Compare four options in pairs using a different criterion each time.
Write a short note to open at your next meeting.
Build the tallest freestanding tower and talk about how the group worked.
Bid on questions for the mentor, then choose whether to answer too.
Compare playful no-thanks lists and possible maybes.
Build a four-favorite monument and give it a name.
Explore oddly specific, low-stakes preferences.
Interview the mentor using three connected follow-up questions.
Build a fictional story with alternating good news and complications.
Invent deliberately wrong explanations for harmless questions.
Review everyday annoyances with dramatic, object-focused humor.
Describe a familiar topic without three obvious words.
Explain a fictional mystery one alphabet-led sentence at a time.
Reveal a shared creature drawn secretly in folded sections.
Make deliberately imperfect drawings without lifting the pen.
Experiment with cutting one sheet into a large connected loop.
Create a tiny publication about a student-selected topic.
Slide paper pucks toward a tabletop target together.
Spot one change in an arrangement of everyday objects.
Identify a visible mystery object using yes/no questions.
Collect unnoticed room details together.
Coordinate a shared count without speaking at the same time.
Invent and test silent signals for a cooperative task.
Move toward a nearby finish through rock-paper-scissors rounds.
Reach a nearby destination by naming examples together.
Move an object across paper islands while feet stay on the floor.
Arrange a neutral lineup using gestures rather than speech.
Notice three student-selected categories on a permitted short walk.
Notice a helpful action and describe its effect.
Choose the kind of help that fits a fictional situation.
Explore several explanations before deciding what information is missing.
Teach each other a practical everyday shortcut.
Choose a tiny, changeable opening or closing ritual together.
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Quirky icebreaker questions for grades 6 to 8. Let students answer, invent an answer, point, watch, or pass. In a group, invite a few responses per question so it stays lively.
You do not have to make every meeting profound. A shared doodle or a conversation about a favorite game can be a worthwhile way to spend your time together.
These resources support mentoring and educational activities. They are not counseling, clinical assessments, or treatment materials. Follow your mentoring program's requirements for supervision, privacy, and responding to concerns.